On the fourth of July, 2007 Caleb Potter was involved in a skateboarding accident.
He suffered serious injuries and continues to need all of our positive thoughts and prayers.
This blog is to serve as a space for updates on Caleb's journey of recovery.

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Guest Blog #2: Judith a.k.a. "Chris Miner"

Hello everyone! I was asked by sharon, or the crazy lady as I like to call her, to tell you a little bit about Caleb. So here I am. I am one of the lads close friends. I pondered what to say to everyone for quite a while, so here goes.


I live in Wellfleet with my wonderful family, Nicole my awesome wife always by my side, and my son Caleb who is just like the lad in every way. If you are wondering it is not a coincidence, he got his name from the lad. My son though because of the confusion of both their names being Caleb, we then renamed caleb potter to: "Uncle Poop." It fits perfect. I, like the lad, am a local fisherman and modern day pirate.


Enough about me, I would like to help you fill in the puzzle pieces so maybe you can see a little more of the big picture. Caleb is wonderful, friendly, calm, kind natured, helpful, and respectful. The best kind of friend a guy could have. Always the center of attention where ever he might be. I am proud to be a pirate on the best ship in the world, with yellowbeard at the helm.


Caleb has done so much for me that if I listed everything, you would be reading for days. He is the type of guy that if you called him at 2 a.m. because you needed help(which I have). He would be there in 5 minutes. Or maybe he would just sit and listen when I need to vent. Or just a kind hug, and a glance with the simple words, "What's up Judi?" is enough to put a smile on my face. He is just about the best wing man a guy could have. He is truly one of a kind.


Days before the accident my mother called me to tell me that; Caleb had driven down to the trailer park to see jenny's family. Yet the Wellfleet road race was blocking their exit. Caleb always remembering every little road in Wellfleet, rememberd the driving path to town. The path, though, goes right through my mother's front lawn. Instead of just flying through her yard, and escaping. He stopped walked up to the front door and rang the doorbell. Patiently waiting for approval. My stepfather answered the door and caleb then stated, "I am friends with Chris and I was wondering if I might be able to drive through?" My stepfather then replied, "No one has ever asked for permission, you can drive through anytime you want." This is caleb every minute of every day of every year. Kind and respectful and always thinking of others before himself, and usually charming the pants off of anyone he comes in contact with.

I am proud to be friends with the lad. There is no doubt in my mind he will return as the Yellowbeard he truly is. If Karma has anything to do with it then this kids got enough good will for 2 lifetimes. Keep praying for Caleb Potter. I also want to thank anyone that is involved in the massive Caleb Potter Campaign. From the benefits, to his grant, to the bloggers keeping sharon occupied, I say "THANK YOU."


Much Love

Judith


53 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha, What a picture of the Lad and I!!! So "Old School". I miss his crazy behind.

Nicole Miner :)

Anonymous said...

Judith - thank you..you described Caleb with perfection. What the hell did you put in the drinks that must be below the second picture on your blog? Caleb spent about 5 min. staring at your picture and wouldn't let me take the computer away. All is well! mumsie

Anonymous said...

Nice memories from a great friend.
I also love that your wife comments everyday, she is quite a writer herself.

J

Anonymous said...

Thanks Judith!
Your entry and those of the other guest bloggers continues to burn Caleb's personality and charm
into the hearts & minds of all of us that are thinking of Caleb from afar.

Anonymous said...

You described Caleb beautifully! And you are a true friend to him.

Anonymous said...

Judith,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about Caleb and helping those of us who have never met him become acquainted with the lad through your heartfelt words.
Someone said that a man can be measured by the company that he keeps - obviously Caleb is quite a man!
Prayerfully,
Carol O
Truro/FLA

Anonymous said...

Caleb!

It's GO time dude. . .Put your Rally Cap on and get your ass home. Baby steps then FULL ON SPRINTING. You DIG??

xoxox,settie

Anonymous said...

Wow. I get goose bumps reading about the love you guys all have in ya and for each other. I have two remarkable sons and if we were fleetians I know you would all be best buds. Love is all around and Karma WILL get Caleb through this. Good on ya....

Anonymous said...

Wow. I get goose bumps reading about the love you guys all have in ya and for each other. I have two remarkable sons and if we were fleetians I know you would all be best buds. Love is all around and Karma WILL get Caleb through this. Namaste.

Anonymous said...

Yeah judith! amystj

Anonymous said...

Ditto mumsie..what the hell was in those drinks period:)

Amy St.John said...

it is because of Caleb that I have had the absolute pleasure of getting to know Judith and his sweet little family. Since the fourth, Judith has been my "caleb"...which basically means that he listens to me rant about life, teases me and says gross stuff, and most importantly, gives honest (sometimes brutal) advice. I wouldn't have been able do have made it through the past few months without his lovely wife either. Thank you little miner family. I love you.

Anonymous said...

Judith,

I'm so proud of you and your devotion to a very good friend and his family. If this lad is half the man you have led us to believe he is, then he would be doing the same for you if he could. Hang in there and remember that this is a long journey he is on. Be there for all of it. Make time for Nicole and Caleb but at the same time keep an ear to the ground in case he needs you...AND HE WILL NEED YOU. I am not signing this because you know who I am. Remember, you can never have too many people who love you. Judith indeed!

Anonymous said...

What was in the drinks that night??? Hahahahaha....Who knows!!! All those pictures were taken about 6 years, or so, ago. "I'M SURE SOMETHING GOOD"!!! ;)

~Nicole Miner :)

Anonymous said...

that was informative, but you look like a bunch of stoners.

Anonymous said...

He also believed that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
judith

Anonymous said...

We will keep praying! As I watch my own children make their way through their twenties, I am so grateful for the friends they have to turn to when the road is hard or to share the good times when the road is smooth. It is one of the great joys of being a a parent...seeing them happy and loving and being loved. As has been said many times, how lucky you are to have one another. Continued prayers. Continued healing. God Bless Us, Everyone!

Anonymous said...

Dear Judith a.k.a Chris,
Thank you so much for guest appearance... As I am a former fleetian, and grew up in truro, long time resident, that has now moved on, it is so great to feel and see and hear all of your voices...
As for the last blogger, go somewhere else to critize and judge!!!! This is not what this site for Caleb is about.. It's called HEALING...
as always, peace,thoughts and love

Sky said...

YeH jUdI! thanks for the post lad. it was great to hear your voice on the "green page", coming through loud and clear. i can't get over that photo at the bottom. that was ages ago! so many beautiful times we have all shared over the years. when i get the least bit down about caleb i often think about the supportive and positive words you said while we were coming home from the hospital that first night. i am so happy to be part of your circle. lots of love to you, nicole and little leb!
xo Sky

Tracy in the Berkshires, Ma. said...

Judith,
my twenty six year old son was looking over my shoulder at the coffee shop this morning as I was reading your blog ...he Asked is that one of Calebs friends?
yeah, I said and the guys name is Judith.....
to which he replied,yeah those guys totally rock the Bro zone.
meaning....
tight male friends who share their life, their work, their families, their friends,their passions, their art... they love and party hard.

Anonymous said...

Well Judith, it is great to put the face with the name! Your sweet wife was kind enough to pick me up in Hyannis in the rain when I came to visit Amy stj. the end of July. I haven't met the little Caleb yet either but all in good time.

With friends like you and all the rest there is no other option but for Caleb to get well and sail his ship again. You are collectively responsible for his increasing strength and desire to stay here with us all. This is good because Sharyn gets to rest. It is amazing how similar you "guests" sound when expressing your feelings about Caleb. I applaud all of you and hope to meet everyone next yr.. Be safe on the sea this winter. Love and best wishes from yet another Mom. Penny on St.John

Penny on St.John

Anonymous said...

I heard that they way Judith got the name Judith is because when they were kids and they would hang on the benches in town and a woman named Judy would walk by all anyone had to say was "here comes Judith" and Chris would collapse into hysterical laughter. He just thought the name was really funny so of course everyone started calling him Judith. Is that true?

Anonymous said...

This is Judith/Chris' Wife, Nicole...Yet again...Hahahaha!!! :)

I just wanted to respond to the last comment that I had read about how my Hubby was dubbed,"Judith". I think that is a very interesting story indeed. I have actually never heard that one, and I will be very interested to ask him about that when he comes home.

You know, honestly, I have heard a couple of different stories about that....and I don't even think that Chris knows how/why he was calleb that. Something to do with India Conklin/Dan Suggs??!?!?!
Does anyone else know more than I do about this story? I would love to know the REAL reason.

Nicole :)

Anonymous said...

Great post! Caleb is fortunate to have such a great extended clan.

Anonymous said...

Caleb is lucky to have such a close circle of friends .. and it sounds as if you are all just as lucky to have him in your lives. And just for the record, every picture I have of my friends and I in our twenties look very similar to yours!

Anonymous said...

Chris-First of all let me begin by saying how proud I am of you for this Blog. Nice job! Your story about Caleb asking Tom for permission to drive through the yard is such a telling sign of his incredible upbringing-(Either that or you've told him way too many stories of your Mother's wrath...(Mom...this is a joke)) I have had the pleasure of meeting many of your friends and hold Caleb among the best of them. You are all so lucky to have eachother. As I've said to you before, we have two families, the one we are born into and the one we choose as we get older. You have chosen well!
Judith's Big Sis (Karen)
PS-
I believe the Nickname came from a simalarity to Rob F's Aunt Judy.

Anonymous said...

Hey critical Mr. Anonymous (of the stoner comment)Show some respect for the people in the photos and on this page. They seem to me to be the kind of people who would not dream of judging others based on a couple of photos, nor make a hasty unfounded comment such as yours. Obviously all of us have grown to love and care about Caleb and his family over time and through this travail, and would rather not have any kind of negativity posted here. This site is all about love, faith, trust, support, and hope. Let's keep it positive and in focus: healing loving thoughts for Caleb and support for his family.
Chris , a wonderful snapshot of your friendship, and the dear lad's wacky,sweet personality. No wonder you love him.
As always, with hope,
peg from PA

Anonymous said...

Ha Ha! "Mr. Anonymous" got one of the Moms mad. Watch out! Love, Another Mom

Anonymous said...

Uncle Judith..
Thanks so much for that.. you little jerk, you made me cry! I saw you sent your little angel to accompany Yellowbeard during his recovery, well I can for sure say that your little shoulder sittin pal will do wonders for him, cause you sent him/her with me to visit Mia and Bags out West many yrs ago..
Judi, you have been a very loyal, and fun lad to Caleb, and we all know he loves you very much. Good to see your grill on here.. love ya lad..
Xo.. "Toots"
Sharyn.. love ya!

Anonymous said...

To anonymous with the stoner comment,

You have to be a cold hearted loser to have made such an inappropriate and unwarranted comment. These kids show more compassion in their writings and with their actions than some people show in a life time. This is a time for healing for them as well as Caleb. Perhaps you have never had or have been a good friend. Try showing up at one of the prayer meetings for Caleb. It might change the way you look at the things! Another Mom PISSED!

Anonymous said...

Dear Stoner Basher-

Maybe you could use a hit? It might help with the hemroids growing out of that hole you call your mouth.

-Another loving mother

Anonymous said...

Honestly, knowing Caleb I think he wouldn't really pay much attention to the stoner comment.. I think we are losing focus here sometimes on this blog, let's keep it clean, respectful, and fresh for Leb, and his family, they need all the positive energy we have.
It's a waste of energy to be busting an obviously ignorant person on their rudeness. Let it roll off.. Caleb would, and this is ALL about him.

Anonymous said...

Hey everybody,
The comment is ok. It is just one person and they are entitled to their own opinion. I take no offence nor would caleb.
As for the judith name it came from doodle's aunt's dog on a snowboarding mission of the lads.(Along with "BILLS", a guy named bill that fixed the can) Then doodles had the name for a while. When he left guess who got stuck with it.
Get better lad.
much love
judith

Tracy in the Berkshires, Ma. said...

yeah lets not focus on a comment that was maybe not intended to sound so harsh......but offended many of us anyway........people say and think things without having clarity of expression in the written word.
who knows what they intended.....in fact in some circles being a stoner is cool.......I know and love a few.
and besides who stills judges a book by its cover these days.......
some of the most pierced and tatooed looking stoners
I know are in law and med school...own thriving businesses, have beautiful families and are straight edge folk.
we are here to support Caleb, his family and friends...don,t get sidetracked by one anonymous post.
we all rock to hard for that.

Anonymous said...

I love the story about Caleb asking to drive thru your Mom's yard. That is really polite and thoughtful and he got a lifetime pass! I think that Caleb will probably just laugh at the remark about looking like a stoner in that picture.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Judith for sharing your thoughts about your good bud....for those of us who only know Caleb by spirit, and now, reputation, it really means alot!

It's no wonder that Caleb has made the stives he has, with such a great and caring community to retune to. Unfortunately, sometimes it takes a real crisis for us to be truly grateful for what we have, and what we would loose if it weren't there. Thank you for reminding us of what we have to be grateful for.....friendship, sense of community, laughter, Grace to overcome tragedy, and this great huge thing we call LOVE.

I really love what you had to say, thanks for being so open and willing to share with us all.

Caleb is so blessed to have friends like you,your wife and lil Caleb...
Take care.....

Melinda

Anonymous said...

Hey, who among us hasn't been a stoner of some sort or another?
I don't think whoever wrote that meant harm by it...and I bet they LOVE Caleb too!
As my son loves to say...
Chillin like a villian...ts'all cool.
Don't worry, be happy!

Anonymous said...

as an outsider looking in, it is great to hear the other perspectives on Caleb's life...you guys have an awesome unique and supportive group who I would be honored to know...it is unfortunate that someone would actually comment on the way someone looks in the pic...thanxs for sharing your intimate aspects of your life with us total strangers who have boarded the ride for Caleb's journey home...we should all be so lucky to have friends like you guys...Healing positve energy to Caleb

A mom in Md

Anonymous said...

judith...i don't know you & only met you july 5 @ the H when all was a blurrrrrr...but thanks for the depth of your heart here on the blog. it is clear the lebster has a mighty comrade in you.
your wife is lovely, a wonderful mom and one whose words i always enjoy reading.
i'm glad to be in the same community as your family...know that i admire you from afar.
deirdre
p.s. LOVE that picture of you, very cool.
oh & p.p.s. i think the stoner comment was ok, i didn't feel like it was meant in a mean way, more of a joke.
as your wife is so good at "saying"... :)

Anonymous said...

Are all the boys in Wellfleet as HOT as caleb, his brothers, shaye, and "judith"? When they make this story into a movie, i hope they get to play themselves!

Anonymous said...

Chris,

You and Caleb are so lucky to have each other. I love the story of Caleb asking your Mom to go through the yard! That's Caleb!

Kevin

Anonymous said...

Hey you guys! Sharyn, Judith, Caleb and all those groovy dudes(and gals) Its so Nice to hear Caleb is better, i've been watching his progress with my mother, and its really cool to come home from school with lots of homework and have the highlight of my day be reading what you guys write about Caleb, it warms the cockles of my heart to see all that warm gushy love. ^__^ Good luck to you all, and remeber Caleb a Pirate never gives up! Lots 'o love <3
Melinda's Daughter *Mari*

Anonymous said...

Yeah, Wellfleet Breeds 'em well, huh? I LOVE all the Fleetian boys....And we have many, many, many more "goodlooking" boys in this town. All with wonderful personalities to boot. Caleb Potter
DEFINATELY being one of the GREAT!!!
If you aren't from Wellfleet(which it sounds like you may not be) maybe come for a vay-cay next season and check out the "SCENERY"! LOL ;)
~NLM :)

Anonymous said...

A quick correction, the prayer circle move will take place this friday at 5:30 pm. thanks everyone!

Anonymous said...

As a mom who vacationed in Wellfleet this summer (mid-July) and a teacher, it is so wonderful to see such a close, compassionate group always coming through for each other. Clearly you understand love as a force of action. To all the Wellfleet moms on the blog, what an inspiration you all are! Just a gentle reminder to everyone else, every good mom has a tiger in her ready to protect her kids and her kids' friends. Sometimes the tiger comes out even if only a pussycat is needed (i.e random blog comment):). I love that you moms have the guys' and gals' backs. You can tell that's part of why your kids are so strong. Good for you ladies! Lisa K.

Anonymous said...

Thank you, Judith!

Love,
Ellen Webb

Anonymous said...

Hi, Anonymous here (of the "stoner" comment). I wasn't intending to attack anyone. I should have been more clear.

The point of this site, and all the good works being done by the friends and neighbors of Caleb, is to support and help Caleb.

Strangers coming here (people who don't know Fleetians from Martians) might be put off by photos of people who appear stoned.

The write-up was great. I just thought that the photos were not polished enough to put the best face on this place.

My apologies.

Anonymous said...

I'm confused. Was "stoners" meant as a bad word?? I thought this was a celebration of things as they are. So what's the rub??

Anonymous said...

Dear Stoner Commentor,
No hard feelings. Everyone has been a bit on edge with this whole up and down ride. It shows that you are one of the fold with your apology. So sorry to have jumped on you. Another mom with hemoroids in her mouth. Get well Caleb!

Anonymous said...

Judith and all of Caleb's wise friends,
Whoever said that "youth is wasted on the young" obviously never met all of you! For you have already learned the value of friendship and the ability to express your love. And personally, I have to thank you for giving me an "aha" moment. Because I have been following Caleb's progress since our summer vacation and have even commented a few times hoping to lend some kind of support. But after the last crisis with Caleb, I began to worry that I had no right to insinuate myself into something so painful and raw and private. But I get it now-----you want us to know your friend; what a caring great kid he is, and I see that in spades. Thank you. I will banish all guilt and celebrate the six degrees of separation that binds us all. I hold Caleb and his family and all his wise friends in my heart.
Jackie

Anonymous said...

Yah Chris!

Great story.....

See you in Duck Creek...

Anonymous said...

so surprised that a couple of the wellfleet 'moms' got "pissed", angry, disturbed, etc....with some of the anonymous remarks......up until now, this has been all about caleb, his situation, his progress, his future, his family, his town support, his incredible friends.....and for the friends to understand and forgive often misinterpreted comments - but their 'moms' not able to do so - is causing the blog to lose the focal point - CALEB - and if his friends choose to write about their relationships/experiences with a passionate, life-loving caleb, then so be it....relax, everyone, put all this energy to better use - send it to caleb.

Anonymous said...

screw polished photos. they are boring.