On the fourth of July, 2007 Caleb Potter was involved in a skateboarding accident.
He suffered serious injuries and continues to need all of our positive thoughts and prayers.
This blog is to serve as a space for updates on Caleb's journey of recovery.

Friday, August 3, 2007

Friday from mum

So I gathered all of your sage advise - went home a bit earlier last night, watched a movie and pounded down a bottle of wine and now I am all better - thank you! Caleb had a wonderful day - tho as always when he has company, he is pooped out! Barney, Baglioni and Chad all traveled to Spaulding for an eventful visit. Caleb pulled in all his resources and walked the full length of the hall - down and back, still with help, but that is the farthest he has gone so far and I know he wanted to put his best foot forward (no pun) for these guys! They were cheering him on! He wrote on a paper "Rough it up good. Don't let anything dangerous change your mind!" Now just where does he get that strenght from? - I am in awe! His spirit just shines through and he is climbing above the timberline to get a new perspective. He also wrote - Hi mom , I am alright- after I pressed him for an answer. We have had a mini van donated to us by a very generous man who used it(Lucky is it's name) for fundraising for his close friend in a similar situation. I am wondering if Andy would do a paint job on the new "Billy Rig" as Shaye called it. Thank you for the van, the $$, the prayers,the picture books, CD's, the new tube of red lipstick..your time and energy! I think that Caleb is ready for mail so - Caleb Potter 8th floor Spaulding Rehab Hospital 125 Nashua St. Boston, MA 02114-1198. I would love for Caleb to hear from any of you who don't know him as well as his close friends. I am so changed by all of this in so many ways and I know Caleb is on a journey that only he can take, but that he will return. I am thinking about writing a book titled "Menopause and Brain damage" a womans guide to gliding through menopause without even noticing! We are fine and our hearts cross pollinate each day along with yours. So I will leave you with the words that Richard said to me which ring through my soul every day. " Without Caleb, I am rudderless. He points me into the wind" I love you all and know you feel that too.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Happy to hear the great progress. Cheers Old Lady for the bottle of wine. Keep him pointed into the wind and he will sail into wellfleet harbor. Good Night, Good Morning, and happy living.
Much Love
Uncle Judi, Nicole, and Caleb Anthony

Anonymous said...

Dear Sharyn,
I am glad you are having a better day. If Caleb had injured his leg badly you would not expect a full recovery in a month. You would know that it would take time and therapy to heal the injury. This injury is the same. He has already come so far, and the stage where he is at now is only the first stage of his recovery. The final outcome is a long way off. Think of what it was like when he was a newborn...think how he changed in a year, in two...He is starting a new life...he has blown through at least a few of his nine lives with this accident. He is going to improve a lot more. I have known people who have suffered bad head injuries. Some didn't come out of the initial coma for weeks and then went on to live normal lives.

Even if he isn't exactly the same it doesn't mean that it will be bad.I don't know whether you know that my oldest son (Shannon Cavanaugh and Haley Ellis' brother Bradley) is autistic. Yes we were trail blazers. We had an autistic before they became as fashionable as pocket dogs. Like any other person he changes and grows all the time. He is any other person. There is room in the world for difference. God knows there is room in Wellfleet for differnce. Caleb is going to get well, come home and fit in just fine.
Suz

Anonymous said...

Sharyn,
I think that Caleb is the rudder in many a people's lives....
He is the backbone of so many!!!
Love to you in Boston.
~Nicole

Anonymous said...

Sharyn,
Greetings again from Pa. So glad you took the time to unwind, you need it....and wine helps alot. Great news on Caleb, please give him a hug for us...even though we have never met. I can't wait to come to Wellfleet next year and see this man, since we have been there he (and you) have become so much a part of my day.....praying and waiting.....good news for all of you! take care, God bless all of you and the people of Wellfleet.....Bob & Lisa

Anonymous said...

Sharyn,
thinking of you guys all the time. What you write is so touching and helps me see the same loving and lovely family I've known for these years. We are rooting for Caleb every day and are amazed by his progress. It's pretty incredible! We will be in Wellfleet for a couple of weeks and then back in Boston by mid month so please call us again and let us take care of you for a night. lots and lots of love from Carrie and Neil and Satchel

Anonymous said...

So happy to hear about calebs progress, It's soooooo nice to know that he is constantly improving and accomplishing so much in rehab. Miss you guys around fleet...but keep up the hard work caleb, and we'll be rooting you on! Sharyn, your blogs are wonderfully written, there are so many people who are feeding off of your updates, thank you, yall stay strong! Love,
ian

Anonymous said...

Sharyn,

Isn't it great how well wine can work. I know where there is more!

:-)))

Anonymous said...

So great to know you and caleb are doing fine. We miss you so much. Keep smiling and keep up the amazing blogs sharyn. You've created a place for us all to understand and cope with it all from a distance. Hope to see you soon. XOxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo Grace

Anonymous said...

I met a girl in P-Town yesterday who last Summer was hit and run by a car and ended up in rehab for three weeks etc. She is beautiful and witty and you would never know that she was on deaths door as Caleb was three short weeks ago. This made me feel great to see living, walking, drinking, swearing proof that Caleb will be CALEB this time next year. . .without a doubt. PATIENCE is what she told me.

Anonymous said...

Wonderful news, Sharyn! Keep on pushing through--you have so many things to smile about!

Clance said...

Billy Dream:

Well, we were ALL hanging at Mumsies one FRIDAY NIGHT (which was our jaggin night back in school years) a blazin fire was in the works, and Kai and I were stoking it.. a bunch of people were bummin out over the situation with Caleb being so far away.. Amy St John said " I feel like he is going to just jump outta the woods anytime now, he should anyway" A few lads said "With due time."
We all kinda started to tell short stories, laughing all the while, and what do you know.. it was very dark outside of the fire circle, and we heard a rustling coming from Sharyn's garden..

First came Spud, then you know who..I yelled "It's him, it's our Captain!!" Caleb casually walks into the circle with that grin on his face, and says "Hey Bills." We all began shouting, and whooping, and crying!! I seriously awoke with the biggest smile on my face..

He looked great, still a little frail-ish, and had some pretty nice looking battle wounds like that of a lion! But he had fattened up quite a bit, and was SO happy to see everyone..I feel like this all REALLY happened last night..
So hold tight dear ones, he will be home that much more sooner with all the faith, patience, love, and prayer from everyone!!
I am so glad The Bills made it up there, he needs his Fleetian mates to remind him of his strength and humor..
Much love..Sharyn, thats what I like to hear about you drinkin some wine..sounds a lot more like you.. hehehehe! Not that I was ever worried about you being to wiped out, you are the toughest of all! XO!!

Anonymous said...

Great news. One day at a time (no, that is not an oblique reference to the wine ;)
We are back in Wellfleet for the next week - one last summer hurrah before tenants take over our house. Hope to maybe see you and say hello. Give Caleb our best.
Jerry G

Anonymous said...

Hi Sharyn,
I am so, so happy to hear the great reports on Calebs progress.
So many people will tell you to take small step's everyday but all I am reading seems as Caleb and you
are doing much more than that!!!BRAVO!! As for possibly writing a book...
You have already done that on the blog. Far from over but I can only imagine an incredibly happy and amazing ending (which means it is the start of a life we never knew before )peace to Caleb & You

Anonymous said...

This amazing young man has but the strength of ten-----Sharyn,a woman after my own heart. We will have to have "wine time" the next time I visit Amy! The progress is just fantastic and I know it will continue. Smooth sailing and blue skies Caleb. Best love to all.

Penny, Amy's Mom on St. John

Anonymous said...

Sharyn, thought I'd tell you that I too had a dream about Caleb last night... I was sitting at my computer, checking the blog, and there on the green screen was an update that Caleb had written himself, thanking everyone for the wishes and promising he'd see them all soon. Because it was a dream, when I looked at the screen I could also actually see Caleb there writing it, grinning away. I remember thinking, oh, good, Caleb's finally writing himself! The energy is there for him to gather up. Much love,
Casey

Anonymous said...

I am an Occupational Therapist - from Foxboro. Just returned from 2 weeks in Wellfleet, where we vacation each summer. The best place in the world! Let me tell you: I have worked with lots of head injured young adults. Caleb WILL improve to the max beacause he is strong willed AND because he has HUGE support. I don't know you or him; but I feel like I do! The community support is amazing. He must be truly loved by so many! And that's what will help him thru this. Family by his side, reminding him of the things that are important to him. Pictures all around him......tapes of everybody's voices........familiar stuff.......and great therapists. When I swam at Dyer Pond and saw "Caleb Potter from Ellen" written in rocks.....it was another amazing show of love and support. What an awesome community and what an awesome Mumsie. Prayers to you all.
Yes, wine and lots of good food will help Mum. Keep up the faith; and give yourself a little break sometimes....maybe a massage or just a quiet walk.
Marion