On the fourth of July, 2007 Caleb Potter was involved in a skateboarding accident.
He suffered serious injuries and continues to need all of our positive thoughts and prayers.
This blog is to serve as a space for updates on Caleb's journey of recovery.

Monday, October 22, 2007

Potter History

This is Jan's sister, Kerstin, also known as Ken, signing in to give a bit of Potter family history. Now that Caleb is going home, - hooray!- family history might put the events of this summer into perspective.

The Potters have always been great risk takers, "roughed it up good", throughout the centuries. The earliest known Potters settled south of Boston in the 1600's, and were soon expelled to Rhode Island, because their wild lifestyle did not conform to Puritan standards. Their descendant, "Captain Potter" was a privateer (yes, pirate!) sailing out of Newport in the 17oo's, attacking ships involved in the triangle trade for His Majesty.

In the early 1800's, Abadnigo Potter left the relative security of Rhode Island, and settled in the wilds of Vermont, where he founded some textile mills in the town of Pownal, becoming an early industrialist. Relatively well established there, he went into the hills and brought back an Indian wife of the Mohegan nation - a socially rather risky action at the time. His three sons went into politics, that is, they disagreed with the town officials, and in a drunken rage, burnt down City Hall. This earned them the official title "The Three Wild Potters". One of their sons, Chauncy Potter, ran away from this unstable home as a boy and hopped on the Boston & Maine Railway as it ran through town and started work as train porter. He worked himself up in the ranks, and became Station Master at Porter Square Station in Cambridge. Here, he took another risk, and married a lively young woman, very many years his junior. The marriage was stormy, but produced George Potter, the greatest risk taker of them all.

George, Caleb's grandfather, was sent to college to become a lawyer, but secretly got his degree in Far Eastern poetry. He travelled the world over, explored and experienced as much as he could, and never "let anything dangerous enter his mind". When stationed in Okinawa, he took the family out on trips to outlying islands (whose inhabitants had never met a non-native, and could have been nasty...) on a very temperamental de-commissioned PT boat. Neither impending typhoons, coral reefs, or constant engine trouble would stop him. Due to the absence of nautical charts, he regularly explored channels by diving into the shark infested waters. Soon after returning to the US, this risk taking continued; once, we camped on an unfamiliar beach close to the water, and at midnight, we woke to being washed by the incoming tide, with three month-old Jan floating out far out to sea in his bassinet in the light of the full moon. I will mention just one more example of disastrous family outings; our trip through the Mexican desert in a VW bug (all five of us), with nothing but a bag of limes - not even a drop of tequila, or water for that matter - , and of course the car got stuck in an arroyo with desert stretching to the horizon...and we almost died.

And then there is Jan - we all know him....

Most Potter family stories end with "and we almost died",...but then didn't and then we went on to tell some very exciting tales. This is where Caleb comes in, as he continues the same family tradition. As he returns home, and in the years to come, I fully expect him to eventually look back and tell his grand children about his skate boarding adventures and how he never let anything dangerous enter his mind.

Portrait of the Potter men in 1992 or so:
Jan, George, Kai, Caleb, and Max

26 comments:

Anonymous said...

ARRRGH.... a great post. Is all that adventure carried in the genes????
Caleb, keep charging forward and you will retake your life!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for that post and the great picture of Jan, his dad, and the boys.

Anonymous said...

Thank you , what a wonderful story and it certainly does give us quite a perspective on the Potter family. This one I'm printing out to share with my family.

Anonymous said...

This was one of the best stories I have ever read! What an amazing legacy!

Anonymous said...

Clearly, there's a gene or two in there to watch out for.

Anonymous said...

Yes, a great additon to the blog. It fills in some gaps and explains where Caleb gets his spirit and his independence...as well as his allotment of personal power ! Thank you for sharing. Gail

Anonymous said...

That was really beautiful. Thanks so much. I'm the girlfriend of one of Caleb's best friends and I've known Caleb for 4 years now- I never knew any of that stuff, its amazing. It's funny to think that somebody is made up of all the people who came before them. I always think of Caleb of being just wild himself with lots of help from his mom and dad, but hearing about the incredible folk kai and caleb and max came from is wicked cool. thanks again, Katie

Anonymous said...

FANTASTIC!!
Geneology is a very cool thing.....especially when it can justify behavior over the milliniam!
I guess no one in the family ever defaulted to the "safe" gene...

Anonymous said...

DNA explains everything. . like it or not. Good stuff. I like it!!

xoxox,settie

Anonymous said...

Thank you- as a history geek and major- I am fascinated by family histories- I only wish I knew my own that well. History, for me, always tends to put things in perspective, as yours has. Thank you Ken- that was great.

Alycia said...

What a terrific history! I'm so happy that no one managed to tame those boys' wild spirits. The world could use more of that....And fabulous news that Caleb will be coming home soon!

I passed through Wellfleet yesterday on my way home from closing down our trailer in PTown for the season. We stopped off at Maguire Landing en route home, and as we stood at the top of the dunes gazing out to sea I said a silent prayer for Caleb and Sharyn and thought how difficult it must be for you, Caleb, and how strange it must feel for you to be so far away for so long from this beautiful spot. Thank God you will soon be back home. The Wigwam sounds like paradise!

I look at Wellfleet through different eyes, now, after faithfully reading this blog every day, and it has been wonderful to get a sense of what a special group of people you Fleetians are (I especially loved ch's post!) Thanks for letting us outsiders in! I almost stopped in to Kevin's to say hi and introduce myself as a blogger, but then felt a little presumptuous so we didn't do it. But we'll be back!

Meanwhile, take care, Sharyn and Caleb, and you are always in my thoughts and prayers.

Alycia

Anonymous said...

Ken,

Quite a bit of family history... Back to the 1600's is something to know about your genes. Thanks for sharing the story.

Kevin

Anonymous said...

Everyone wants Sharon to write a book, but someone should write an expanded version of the history of the Potter family. Fascinating people.
Thank you for letting us letting us inside your family.

Anonymous said...

Woooow, and I thought my familey had a wild side. So many stories to tell the Granchildrens as you get older, and I'm sure They will all be enthralled by Calebs fight with the grim wreeper, and how he won. Mom and I are so Happy to find he's gotten better, cant wait to see the pirate flag waving high. Tons o' love and best Wishes.
-Mari (Melinda's daughter)

Anonymous said...

Yikes! thanks Ken for a great post. I guess those Potter boys did come by that wild side honestly and of course there is a pirate in the family tree. To the bloggers who are shy about introducing themselves I really can't think of anyone who would mind. At the Oysterfest I saw some people who looked like they might be some of our new blogger friends but I was reluctant to walk up to strangers and say "So are you Lesa or what?" (or something like that)Anyway next time you are in town say hi! Love, Susanna

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much for sharing Ken, those stories brought many smiles, and makes me appreciate The Potter Family that much more. No wonder this generation of Potter men are so awesome. Caleb has rarely been one to sit still.. he's got that captain/pirate blood raging in his veins!
Xo, love to all.. Clance

Anonymous said...

so good to listen to alittle of grampa george.i am most impressed with his bravery as a young man,with himself and his new family.he was always one to intimedate me but also share his intellect.glad to know more of who he was.jan floating out to sea might be the prelude to his luv of water and sailing.so glad to learn of sharyn and caleb's return,not kai's.sharyn call me if you can,and kai don,t be a fool.luv timmy

Anonymous said...

OMG!!!!!
freaking hilarious!
no wonder...
it's a defect in the DNA...or not.
xoxooxoxoxoxo

Anonymous said...

Wonderful story about the Potter Family. I would hear the boys talking once in a while and two of them sound like their grandfather. Don't know which two. I missed him this summer, and Jan finally told me that he had left this earth for a better place in the spring. God Bless and Love you all. Natale

Anonymous said...

What an extraordinary story, that follows extraordinary lives! Thank you so much for sharing this journey with us. We have come to know you the Von Potter/Von Lindsay Clan over these months and feel like we are connected by this magical thread. I think this is what makes us human....the way we yearn to touch each others lives, even when we don't know one another.

The photo is precious, as all the previous postings have been. We are able to see you all so clearly. the journey has been and continues to be a remarkable one.

Thank you so very much for this gift. Caleb, have a wonderful night and give you 'ma a kiss for me, and my daughter Mari (who will be 15 tomorrow).

Blessings this night,

In Love and Gratitude,

Melinda

Anonymous said...

A lovely and fun gift to us. Thank you...
peg from PA

Anonymous said...

i love the limp rag doll look kai portrays in the photo.
i sooooo remember my kids doing the same thing.
wicked cute boys, all 5.

Anonymous said...

How cool to learn all this - and how lovingly written - must be a wonderful family - that Potter clan! It's nice to get a picture of what Caleb's father is like - his voice is missing from this blog but i'm sure he is not missing from Caleb's life!

Anonymous said...

thanks ken for all the stories/history.
to bad you all didn't know kevin s. before your trip thru the mexican desert. i'm sure he would of supplied you with a bottle of tequila to go with your bag of limes!!!

so, so glad in my heart that caleb and sharyn are coming HOME!!

the vision of jan floating out to sea in his little bassinet is priceless!!!

Anonymous said...

I couldn't stop laughing when you wrote "Most Potter family stories end with "and we almost died"....

Donna said...

Wow,
I knew Caleb is legendary.
Thanks for all the history of all the Potters. They are true risk
takers. I am so thrilled at Calebs recovery. The pictures are
just wonderful. Much thanks for the
informative real stories.....
God Bless,
The DeVastos