On the fourth of July, 2007 Caleb Potter was involved in a skateboarding accident.
He suffered serious injuries and continues to need all of our positive thoughts and prayers.
This blog is to serve as a space for updates on Caleb's journey of recovery.

Friday, July 4, 2008

It was no accident that twice when I tried to call Max today, I instead got Jan's answering machine. "Hi this is Jan"......and then the familiar voice that followed. At first I was slightly annoyed, then frustrated, finally amused... and then a calm came over me knowing that he was joining us for the day!
Caleb was in full regalia at the parade, beaming and playing the crowds as usual. He was light dancing on light and was connecting with a memory of past that was built into him like a fine tuned machine. . As a tribe of pirates, Caleb and friends never officially signed into the parade roster in years past, or this year for that matter ... and Caleb always lamented the idea that they could never receive the big bang prize of "best in show" without being "legit" ....however the judges saw fit to hand over the golden trophy today to the man who would defy the odds. Thank you for that kindness!
My pleasure was in not only seeing Caleb march again, but also in meeting so many blogger friends who were so kind to show up and say hello and to lend their support...... and of my silent girlfriends who escorted me wherever I went.

At three I woke Kai from his slumbering dreams of days gone by to celebrate and toast the year gone by. It was around three that I stood in the kitchen, barefoot and exhilirated from a lovely day watching last year's parade....when Shaye called to let us know that the mighty pirate had gone down.... it was the call which would change my life forever.
It was the call that would change my life from now till eternity. That call is now a ringtone that has been branded into my cells!

As we left his friends and brothers on Fisher beach tonight after an exhibit of fireworks, compliments of PTowne, we stumbled like drunken ole friends down the quarter mile of dark beach to get to our truck..arm in arm ...my eyes weary from age and sadness..his vision diminished to one ...and I thought for a moment that I just might be jealous of all the young people we had left behind so full of promise with lives untouched by Father time. But as youth passes, and the blazing fireworks pass as well......we found we were were following the dim light of the skyline, stumbling- yes-but still with one another, hands locked in hope.......and I realized I would not trade this moment for anything!

Happy Fouth of July

22 comments:

Tracy in the Berkshires, Ma. said...

You beautiful lady,be blessed over and over with the gratitude you now possess!
I saw the photo of Caleb in the parade today, a gasping sob and tears came so quick, when I saw how beautiful he looked and the look on kia's face as he looked to his bro.
I truly hope to meet you all before summers end.

blackbird said...

Happy 4th to you too -
to all of you.

becky said...

Sharyn,

You are very special! Yesterday, I wished you a Happy 4th of July...maybe I should have wished you and your family a Happy Birthday as well. Be well.

Jeff- in the Berkshires said...

What a glorious celebration of triumph over all that you all have been though the past year. The parade picture says it all. The thoughts of so many who couldn’t be there were with you as usual.

Though Caleb’s vision has been diminished to one, you can’t even calculate the impact that he and you have had on strengthening the inner vision of thousands who for the past year started looking at life differently and with a different clarity. As you have shared your journey, so many people have been inspired by your determination, strength, kindness and eloquent gift of words. These profound ripples in the ocean of life have spread wide and created ripples of their own that have changed lives in ways you will never know.

We are one community and your celebration is our celebration.

Deb said...

I am so sorry that I was not at the parade. I was one of your silent girlfriend bloggers who was there with you in spirit, wondering all it all was going.

Exploding fireworks, brilliant colors over the water at the Cape. Paradise for sure!!!!!!

markmcc said...

“Now and then we had a hope that if we lived and were good, God would permit us to be pirates”- Mark Twain

nancyk4444 said...

Oh... selfish me...(grin)
I NEED to see the photo of caleb from yesterday....NEED it as much as my morning's cup of coffee today!!
PLEASE send a link or tell me what paper to check online!!

NY Nancy - "jonesing" for a Caleb induced smile!!

angie s. said...

Sharon...just beautiful...

so true Jeff, so true... XO's

Susanna said...

Caleb looked just wonderful in the parade yesterday. He and his friends deseved the prize, they were the best and most creative. For a moment I stood there thinking, Wow, is that really Caleb? Yes, it was!

Jerry G said...

Caleb and his parade crew paused in front of us on Main Street yesterday long enough for him to deliver an awesome "Arrrrgghh!" It was perfect.

NY/Wellfleet Mom said...

Caleb WAS the best in show! I'm so happy he and his band of pirates were awarded the prize.

NY/Wellfleet Mom

tim bob said...

YARRR HAR HA HARRRRRR

Gail said...

Nancyk4444- go to: chezsven.blogspot.com/

Kevin Scalley said...

Sharyn,

I couldn't see the parade...

Some girl with blonde hair had her head right in my way!

Damn her!!

Kevin

JayG said...

You guys are so awesome. I'm so glad everything went well yesterday.

nancyk4444 said...

Thank You Gail -
Sharyn - the photo of your boy brought tears to my eyes....I couldn't finish my sentence as I told my 12 year old daughter about him being in the parade yesterday....I had just clicked onto the picture and tears rushed to my eyes and a lump leaped into my throat....

I am SO proud of you Caleb - I feel like your "cyber AUNT"!!

with love and pride,

NY Nancy
PS - we are arriving in town on August 9th
We hope to find you guys and give you a hug.....more on that later!!

amy in ct said...

so sorry i missed it all. josh and i stopped in to see kevin today and he showed us pictures and a video clip of ol' yellow beard himself. it made me well up with tears, i love you guys so much! the pic on kevins check-out counter of you looking into calebs eyes is PRICELESS and i surely hope someone can get it uploaded for all to see.

we are ALL together with you, interlocking arms, following the dim light in the sky, walking together

peace to you all
amy in ct

Unknown said...

So glad you all had such a great day- I was with you in spirit! Happy 4th!

Laura in CT

heather said...

Congratulations!!!
A well deserved trophy it is!!
for an amazing man with a spectacular tribe!

Neil said...

Sharyn, I'm so happy to see the pictures of you all and Caleb, I've come to the blog a couple of times since yesterday to have a look. caleb looks so great, I wish I could have been there,

Love, Neil

Katherine said...

Ive been thinking about you all so much lately. I wish more than anything I could have been there at the parade. The pictures are wonderful! Nice job Sky! I miss being home so much that it hurts! You all seem to be doing well, and I just want you to know that you are all in my thoughts all the time. You were all there for me during my own darkness and loss, and even though I didnt say it, that meant so much to me. Love to all of you!

janet said...

Sharyn, It was wonderful to finally meet you! The parade was fun, and I think it will be our new 4th of July tradition. Caleb looked so happy to be back, and he made us happy just to see him smiling and being a pirate with his friends.
peace,
janet