On the fourth of July, 2007 Caleb Potter was involved in a skateboarding accident.
He suffered serious injuries and continues to need all of our positive thoughts and prayers.
This blog is to serve as a space for updates on Caleb's journey of recovery.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Girlfriend update!!

I wanna try to start this blog on a happy note 2night. caleb and i had a DAY DATE 2day. we went to Provincetown and looked at the boats, had some pizza at Spiritus, shopped alil, and just acted like a normal couple, with laughs and hand-holding. I have to say i was glowing the whole time and it was really nice to smile for the first time after such an emotional week.
Caleb is working very hard at therapy. he is going to stop doing phyiscal therapy, because RHCI said they can not challenge him anymore, so onto the GYM. Caleb is going to have his 6-pack back in no time. we are working on caleb's memory, he still does yoga, and many other holistic therapies as well. He is getting very good at bowling, rummy and horse-shoes. Also, calebs adorable personality is coming back, and his smile could bring a tear to your eyes.

It has been a week now since Jan has left us, and sometimes there are no words to describe the saddness that is being felt. There was a reason why i wanted to blog today, and that is because i just wanted to give everyone alittle insight into how this current tradegy has affected caleb. One of the part's of Caleb's brain that was affected by his accident was his short-term memory. At times, caleb will not remember what he did a half hour ago, and sometimes it is just five minutes and his short-term memory is gone. So, when having to explain to caleb about his father, well this was obviously planned well and thought out. Caleb does not always truly understand that his father is gone, and this is something that we all need to be sensitive to. We all know that when you see caleb out in town, you are going to want to hug him and try to make him feel better, but at that moment, caleb may not remember that his father has passed. So, we are asking one thing.... if you see caleb out, please do not say anything about his father. I know you all want to consol him, and we totally appreicate that, but he doesnt remember all the time. So, if you try to consol him, it will only confuse him. When caleb asks about his father, we remind him of what has happened. there is no textbook way of trying to make someone with a severe brain injury uderstand that their "pops" will not be walking in the door anymore. So his family is doing it in the way that they feel is the right way for caleb.
So please, everyone try to be positive on this blog. the whole fmaily reads it everyday. I know i personally check it like every hour. So, lets keep our comments positive and lend support to a family that needs it.
Thank u everyone for your positive support and prayers.I love u all
-love jennie

69 comments:

Julie/Mom said...

Jenny,
Thanks for keeping us all posted from a different vantage point. This is such a shock and I can't even imagine how Caleb is dealing with it when he remembers.
You are all so strong and connected. That is the best therapy. Your love and support are awe-inspiring. I know you have help but you are such a big part of how Caleb sees things.
Time heals, however slowly....
Best, Julie/Court's Mom

jff said...

Jennie,
Simply, directly, and well stated...and with love.

Nicole said...

Much love to Sarah, Max, Kai, Caleb, Sharyn, and everyone in this incredible family.

In all the comments, I almost missed this beautiful, beautiful post from the other day. I hope it is okay to re-post it here:

this is from Joyas Voladoras by Brian Doyle;
"The biggest heart in the world is inside the blue whale. It weighs more than seven tons. It's as big as a room. It is a room, with four chambers. A child could walk around in it, head high, bending only to step through the valves. ...Of the largest mammal who ever lived we know nearly nothing. But we know this: the animals with the largest heart in the world generally travel in pairs, and their penetrating moaning cries, their piercing yearning tongue, can be heard underwater for miles and miles." Jan had a heart huger than that. It was the joy of my life to swim through life's ocean with him.

Sarah G

Tracy in the Berkshires, Ma. said...

Jennie,
thanks for the update.sounds like a nice day....I am sure you have seen the movie 50 first dates,funny that I thought about it in relationship to you and Caleb......mainly in the`way you need to be creative when dealing with someone with short term memory issues.Sounds like you guys are doing what is best for Caleb.
bless you all.

Unknown said...

Thanks for letting us know what's going on Jennie. Your lil date with your sweetie sounded like a fun day, well deserved. I wish you many more! Caleb you are a lucky man....
I hold you all in my heart, still, and am sending out my wish that the day will come when each of you can start having good, fun days, more often than not.
As always, with hope, and much love,
peg from PA

KHD said...

Jennie,
A genuine kindness and sensitivity oozes through your words. You are quite a young woman.

ch said...

thanks Jennie.....it's a great tide this morning ....as soon as the morning frost burns off(!!!!)

getting back on the flats for oysters is often my best way of....."getting back on the saddle" (listen to me!! my best/only efforts on horseback were as a "wobbly hobbit" on farm horses a few years ago!!!)

horses...are not my strong suit....so.....back to the flats....as I walk and pick...(a south wellfleet habit)... I'm gonna raise a few(oysters) to the chilly morning sun....to all of the Family/Circle....AND to Jan...

'cause: it seems a FLEET thing to do....it's good for ME....and 'cause I love you ...and those(all of us) that have truly learned to CARE ....these past nine months...

i remember sliding a tray of wellfleet's finest to Jan thru his truck window on that stormy rainy day that Caleb first came home....

good memories...strong memories....all part of a strong LIFE....

Sweet Spring to you, Both ..dear Jennie...

in a few minutes that'll be from just off Chair rock....in Blackfish Creek...smiles from the Hollow...light!ly...ch/dad

ps... thanks for the "images" from a "day-around- P-town" and a practical update on our dear friend Caleb....tell him Cedar and Ennie are flyin' home....

soon come, mon!...

I'll remind him, myself, when I see him!! ;-D

Jeff- in the Berkshires said...

Jennie,
Thanks for the great update and pleased to hear of the great progress. Caleb is a lucky guy.

As I looked out over the mountain this morning the light was a ribbon of mostly pink, a little blue and smatterings of yellow waving and dancing across the sky. Cheerful dancing colors coming from the east.

I send to you today all the positive feelings of the pink light and may your spirits again dance in the sunrise.

blackbird said...

It sounds like a great date - it's so good to hear about it...

Sharyn said...

Thank you Amy for the article- it was so helpful.. .thank you Tracy in the Berkshires for you know what and thanks to Sky and all of you for being with us. Sharyn

sass said...

Dear Jennie,

You Are Great!
I see from your words, and deeds, that you embody a trait that Pops/Jan greatly admired. His good friend Vincent described this the other day. It's a trait, a quality, a way of being. 'Integrity.' To be whole, true to yourself. Not always easy, not always nice, yet necessary. You got it, and we love it. What a gift to share.

You go, girlfriend.

Sarah B

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Peggy said...

Jennie...

Thank you. I love "Girlfriend Updates". You are amazing. I am so happy that Caleb did so well in physical therapy. I look forward to vacationing in Wellfleet this summer and hopefully meet Caleb.
Take care.

Peggy from Western Ma

Amy said...

Sharyn, I am so glad that you found the article helpful. It certainly made me think about things in ways I had not before.

Jennie, you are an angel. Thanks for that explanation of where Caleb is at the moment. It must be awful to see him have to relearn over and over again that his father has died. It breaks my heart.

May you all find the strength to continue healing. We are all right here, hoping and praying.

Amy from western MA

Julie said...

Jennie,

You are an amazing girl! Your post was well thought out and articulate. You sound happy Jennie, and that is so important at this critical time.

Blessings and love to all.

J

becky said...

I'll say it AGAIN, " I could only PRAY for someone as special as you for my sons"! The World is OBVIOUSLY a better place with someone positive and caring. I am a HUGE fan of YOGA. There is a LOT of therapy in it. I love the physical feeling, but the meditation that I have learned in the process is priceless.

Maryann in NY said...

When my beloved grandmother died, I had a 'knowing' that she actually EXPANDED to fill the universe, not being confined to her body anymore.

Of course, it didn't change the feeling of loss, but I knew she was not GONE.

Jan lives on in our hearts, in the salty air, the sound of the waves.

A quote that brings me solace regarding death, I don't remember who wrote it:

What is death but a horizon -
and what is a horizon save for the limit of our sight?

With a sad heart,
Maryann

Anne P said...

Sharyn and fam,
I have been following your story and this blog ever since I was visiting the cape on vacation the week after Caleb's accident. I just have to tell you, that your family defines what a "family" should be. Love and acceptance across the board. Through all the ups and downs, triumps and heartaches, you will always have each other to come home to. Love and Prayers from Rocheseter NY>

Michael/Laura said...

Hello All, It is a sunny morning in upstate NY and I awoke to birds singing. It has been just 3 weeks since my sister Maria died and we are all still grieving, but surviving. I have read the words that Sharyn wrote and the comments of the bloggers probably 100 times and I wanted to let all know that kind words and prayers...even from strangers help. They help so much. Our family is still going to do our yearly treck to Wellfleet this summer and as I know it will be bitter sweet I can't wait to run my fingars in the sand and dip my toes in the ocean, and think of those we have lost and with smiles on their faces. Hang in there. With much love, Laura

ann m said...

Thanks Jenny for being so direct- it is another reminder to stay focused on the present moment- How helpful for all of us sending love and light your way- from a distance, online or on the local streets peace and love- ann m

Anonymous said...

WEll said Jennie! You all know what is best for Caleb at this point and time.....my belief is that "things" will improve with Caleb, but that his process needs time. You all are so very wonderful to keep looking forward, and only believing in the best that can happen for Caleb, and yourselves, as well. There are better, and healthier times ahead, I am sure!

Sounds like the Ptown trip was awesome, and very enjoyable and healing for you both....keep that up. Our brains have this magnificent ability to "re-wire" themselves (thank God), so, who can say with certinty where true healing will end up. Remember, our thoughts are very powerful, and amazing things will happen when we hold and believe...our thoughts can change our reality. So, keep visualizing Caleb, "whole" and healthy, and doing amazing things (as if he isn't already).

Jennie, my dear thank you so much for your insights and tenderness, it is so very healing....Mari and I will get to meet you on the 20th..though a thoughtful and pensive occassion, there is reason to celebrate Jan's LIFE, and all the richness he bought to those he knew and loved. And for those of us that have not had the opportunity to meet the Lindasy/Potter tribe, you,Timmy, Jan's family a joyous opportunity to finally meet. Oh, yes, and some the of the local color, some of whom blog here regularly...great fun.

To you all, Caleb,Kai,and Max, Sharyn, Jan's family and partner, please know that we are with you, holding you in Light and Life, and sending you prayers of healing, compassion and boundless love...

Until we meet,

Blessings,

Melinda

Neil said...

Jennie, thank you for updating us on Caleb's progress- it's just incredible how much you all are doing together and what Caleb's accomplished. He's a real inspiration and I'm envious that people could run into him in town. You describe things so clearly that it's easy to picture you all having a good time together, which is how I always think of Sharyn and her boys.

Claus said...

Jennie-Thanks for the update, Caleb sounds great. Ah, Spiritus, thin crust pizza, iced espresso shake - heavenly!The fact that Caleb is now beyond physical therapy and can work out at the gym sounds incredible. At the risk of sounding redundant, you have been an amazing source of strength and support, and if you were not like that before, it is easy to understand why you are now after being surrounded by Sharyn and the mighty Potter Boys. I think about Caleb and Sharyn everyday, and have been mildly obesessing about you all in the past week or so. I was never one for praying much, but we all pray for you daily, and keep sending our positive vibes. love, and hugs. You all have a wonderful healing spirit, and that shall prevail.
With much love to all,
Claus

nancyk4444 said...

Jennie - your sweet words and description of Caleb's whereabouts are priceless - and so are you to him - before, after and especially now. How good you are for him, and it sounds like seeing his progress and his smile is working for you too!!
Sharyn - hang in there - we are here - always, just as we promised we would be a few months ago.
The sun is getting warmer, the days longer and that all lends itself to healing - however long it takes -
This board is quite incredible -it has a life of it's own, many people are strangers - it brings the saying "the kindness of strangers" to life.
It proves that we are being what we are on this earth to be - HUMAN - HUMANE -
To feel compassion, sympathy, empathy and love - just because we are all the same - we are one, and when one hurts, we all feel it.
The power of love - and all those other dated hippie sayings....all alive and well on this blog and in the dear town called Wellfleet...

Nancy in NY

tim montana said...

Thanks Sky for the photos....helps me remember the Jan I loved...thank you Jodi for the words I wish I could say as well.....
I will be visiting the Cape in May and will check in on you all on Long Pond....we will drink some very good wine and toast to Jans life and carry on with ours...
Perhaps a visit to my beautiful new home here in Bigfork Montana is something you might consider...I have tons of space..the lake and mountains and rivers... a healing zone...and you all are invited anytime!!!
Jennie, we never met.... you rock!!!
Sending you Fleetians all my love and positive vibes for the springtime renewal and a better year for us all.
Peace
PS Hi Claus!!!!!!!
Tim Tracy

*S* said...

I wanted to post this yesteday -(Tuesday) but i lost track of the time. I went to newcombs today for the firs time since last week -not sure what i was expecting - but what i found was peace, the memorial surf board,the picture-
Thw waves crashin in one right after the other - the waves told me in their way that life goes on and everyone will come out stronger from this tragedy -
The ocean is still the ocean strong and powerful and telling us a story.
wouldnt you know as i was leaving - i looked out to the ocean one more time - and even as rough as the waters were - i saw a singe grey head bobbing up and down - with a little flick of its head the seal dissapeard -
I took that as its time to move on to heal and to live life to it fullest!
Much love to all of you !

Sandals said...

That is so awesome! It it wonderful to see that his personality has come through this ordeal.

I have had short-term memory loss most of my life, due to a fractured skull, and then going headfirst into a windshield. Caleb may find that writing things down helps.

Love to all,

Sandy in PA

lily S said...

Nicely done Miss Jennie. Your update lifts my spirits today :) Sending lots of love from the west.

XOXO
Lily

Jackie said...

Jennie,
You are a breath of fresh air. Just the image of you and Caleb strolling around inPtown brought a smile to my face, just for the sheer normalcy of it. Caleb was blessed to be born in that family; but he made such a good choice in picking such a sweet 'lil' thing like you. How lucky for you both.
Sharyn, boys, family and all who mourn Jan's loss; please know that I (we) think of you daily and hold you all in our hearts.
Wishing you peace and more and more normal days.
Jackie

Anonymous said...

Wonderful Jennie! Your love for Caleb and his family is a bright, shining Wellfleet star that radiates over all of us! It's comforting to know you're by Caleb's side sharing this journey and participating in his healing. Jennie, Sharyn, Caleb, Kai, Max, Sarah and all of Jan's family and friends-holding you all in my heart today and always-with hope and prayers for continued healing and positive energy to guide you along.

xoxo Kathy

Anonymous said...

Jennie,

Let me begin by saying that I agree wholeheartedly with Becky. I only wish that when my son reaches dating age, he meets someone as caring and devoted as you.
I couldn't stop smiling when I read about your date. Ever since I began my journey with my son, almost everything has become therapeutic to me. Going for a walk with your girlfriend? That's PT. Eating pizza? That's OT/ST. Life itself is the best therapy.
Yoga and other holistic therapies are also excellent. I credit most of Superman's recovery to the "unconventional" therapies, especially Feldenkrais. I'm glad to hear they're working, and that Caleb has been officially discharged from PT! That must be so exciting for you all!
I hope you are all doing as well as possible. Hang in there, and know that we're keeping you in our thoughts.
Blessings,

JB in Sandwich

Clance said...

Jennie..
Hey lady, you are awesome!
You have truly blossomed into such a beautiful, humble, caring woman- and provide us (who love Sharyn, the boys, and all the rest) with such comfort and ease knowing you are so present, and precise in your thinking.
I really hope to have the courage, kindness and endurance you have if I am to ever encounter such tragic, devastating happenings in my life path. You did a great job in asking us all to be considerate to the family and especially Leb, and gave Sharyn a much deserved break from the blog! We all love you. I am sure Jan is resting peacefully knowing you are Caleb's woman!

My heart, prayers, and thoughts are with you all constantly, and I am so blessed to have you in my life!
X's n o's.. love you all..Clance

Alycia said...

I have been pulled away from the blog for a couple of weeks, distracted by the mundane details of daily living.

Last night, however, I had a dream in which Sharyn & Caleb appeared--everyone was dressed in white--it must have been a wedding or some such event. I have never before dreamed of them, and so I felt compelled to return to the blog first thing this morning. I read with horror of the events of April 1 and have felt deep sorrow all day.

To Sharyn, Caleb, Kai and Max and all who loved Jan and whom Jan loved, please know that you and Jan are in my thoughts and prayers. I cannot imagine your grief and pain.

I continue to be awed by this family's strength, love and courage in the face of unbearable pain.

I also continue to be uplifted by the many beautiful posts on this blog. Peace and love to all.
Alycia

Lesa said...

It's always good to get a girlfriend update from you Jenny! You bring a sense of calm and caring to this little world of a blog. I appreciate you, your heart and your love for this family. My prayers are with you and all who are attached to this community.
Lesa

Anonymous said...

Jennie, you are beautiful. You are spring, you are a light rain, you are the fresh breeze that lifts ones hair off their neck. You are so beautiful.

gigi said...

Jennie,
What a doll you are! I can just picture the two of you on your "date"!
Good work with the Cabes, keep him working at it. Sounds like he's making real progress.
Love to ALL of you.

lauraknitgirl said...

So good to read this post. Jennie has such a wonderful way about her! It is heartwrenching to read about Caleb needing to learn over and over again about his father. It is nowhere near the same, but when I was 19 a very close friend died suddenly. I remember for awhile after, when I would first awake in the morning there would be a fraction of a second where I would wake thinking life was the same as always and then I would realize that it had changed forever. It was terrible. Caleb is lucky to have such wonderful family and friends to help him through this. My thoughts are with you all everyday. I hope that with time some peace will come- you are all so extrodinary I am sure it will.

Laura in CT

Jerry G said...

Jennie,

Thanks so much for sharing the story of your "day date", as well as giving some very important facts. Summer is coming and I'm really looking forward to finally meeting Caleb in person one of these days!

Caleb, keep up the great work. And about that six-pack - I'm impressed! The only type of six-pack I've ever had (even when I was young) is the kind that I can buy at Kevin's store.

Wishing you the best, every day...

Jerry

islaygirl said...

Jennie, I've wanted to comment to girlfriend updates before, and i haven't, but I have to now. You sound so enormously centered and grounded, and you must be so appreciated. Heck, I appreciate you and I don't even know you!

weepingtree said...

Jennie, Your positive attitude does us all some good. Whether you come by it naturally or have to work at it,you must know the depth of healing power you convey in your words. How grateful I am for that.

Mommato2 said...

It is great to hear how well Caleb is doing physically.

My heart has been aching for all of you, and I wish you strength and peace.

Much love from Canada.

xoxox

Lizzie in CT said...

I love girlfriend update! I hope you and caleb get a night date soon!

Unknown said...

Jennie,

Thanks for sharing your date with us. Your love for Caleb is beautiful and your light shines brightly on all of us.

Peace to all tonight-
Audrey

Anonymous said...

(From Mari, Melinda's daughter)
Dear Jennie,
It warms the depths of my teengage heart to hear that you and Caleb are enjoying yourselves. I can never even imagine what you and the family must be going through, espicially with Caleb's not remembering. You're all so strong and reading the blog gives me courage, even when it comes to math Homework. All my heart and teenage hootspa goes out to you, and the pirate crew.
I send much gushy feelings and heart felt sympathy.
Can't wait to meet the Lindsy/Potter Clan!
-Mari

Anonymous said...

thank you jennie for the upbeat update! we love to hear all the good stuff. thanks for bringing it to us.
and thank you for informing us the proper way to act, i know i would not know the right thing to do and i thank you for helping me, because i do hope to see caleb on the streets someday :)
keep up the LOVE
prayers and peace to you all
amy in ct

angie s. said...

I came across this site a couple months ago after my friend had visited Wellfleet with her family this past Summer. She felt compelled to search into who is this "Caleb Potter" who's name covered pirate signs throughout the town. She found this site...and, like a true friend would, shared something she found special (this blog, this family, Wellfleet) with me. I've been here every day since. In the midst of this tragedy that started July 4th, inspiration was born and continues to pour out here...even in sad times like these. Thank you Potter/Lindsey family, Wellfleeter's, ALL for sharing here.
Jenny, thanks for helping us to understand how this loss is for Caleb. We are here to help however we can... with silent prayers, words or action...we are here.

XO's Angie

Gail Hunter said...

Jennie- once again your bright words and sensitive heart remind us wisdom doesn't only come with age...

Thank you for the ray of sunshine and the light of truth. You guide the way with such gentleness and expectation for the best from everyone and from life. What a blessing you must be to not only Caleb, but his extended family and friends.

Sending peace and healing prayers to this whole community.

amy in ct said...

here's to a wonderful new day in all of our lives... together...
breath in and breath out!
thinking of all of you!
amy in ct

judith in ny said...

sending along continued prayers for healing and peace for the entire Lindsay/Potter family, their wonderful extended family and friends. You are all truly blessed to have each other and to live in the "little piece of heaven" called Wellfleet. God bless you all, Judith/Rochester, NY

Kevin Scalley said...

Hi Jennie,

Wonderful as usual... As soon as I see you have a post your smile comes in to my mind. Makes it that much better reading your posts!! Thanks for the insight to Caleb. I was wondering about what to do...Very glad your having such great times with him....
Like my picture?
Blogspot keeps changing the sign in procedure...

Keep smiling,
Kevin

P-town Girl said...

I love that girl and I dont even know her. I'm in constant awe of her, what an amazing girlfriend and friend he has. So truly blessed. xoxox

Anonymous said...

Om Namah Shivaya

Amy St.John said...

Jennie...your words are heartfelt and I think we all need to be reminded sometimes that sensitivity is a good thing to have. I know how hard it can be to be constantly reminded of a tragedy in one's life on a regular basis, and it can be hard and exhausting. I hope everyone can have smiles and upbeat greetings for those who are feeling this loss the most.
I was able to be around caleb most of the day yesterday while working with sharyn and he is doing so very well.....good job man! love,amystj

Christa said...

Just thinking of you all today...it's beautiful and sunny here in Cape Fear and we are getting ready to go chicken-necking...yummy Crabs for dinner! The crab pots are full of Toms but there is just something about stringing up a neck and pulling one out of the water on a whim with a 6 year old! I love ya Sharyn and can't get you off my mind...you help me be a better person and mom!

Love to all...

Christa
Wilmington, NC

Tracy in the Berkshires, Ma. said...

for us landlubbers, could we get a translation of chicken necking....
and Toms in the pot?
a sincere inlander.

janet said...

Hoping that today's sunshine warmed your hearts. The platinum/blue/pink bay at sunset was incredible!
Sharyn, I hope you're enjoying some gardening time.
blessings,
janet

batt said...

And I return to the breath as this moment is all there is.

Lisa said...

Jenny,
Thank you for the update, our continued thoughts and prayers are with you all
Lisa in Pa

Lisa K. said...

Hi Jennie,

You are so consistently positive and strong, and this is a gift to all of those around you (and those of us who read you too!). Your voice on the blog reflects strength, balance and grace. You always show how much the loving, sometime little details in life matter and it is great to read your posts! Lisa K.

DD said...

Jennie, What a great update...Your love, dedication and sensitivity shines through. You help make the world is a better place, especially Caleb's and his family's world right now.

Sharyn, still sending love and healing energy to you and the boys. One day at a time, Breathe deeply...

Tracy in the Bershires: A way to catch crabs is to tie a chicken neck or wing to a string, and throw it into the water where there are crabs. When you pull it out, a crab will be attached!

DD

lisa b said...

J-Word...Thanks for all of the positive vibes and the sembilance of normalcy you so lovingly provide. Sharyn, boys, Sarah, and family....keep staying strong. I have had to cancel our school Haiti trip until the summer..due to all of the unrest there now, so I will be there on the 20th. I am sad to miss our trip, but so happy to be a small part of the big and loving collective arms that are wrapping around you all on this day and that one...and beyond... Peace in your hearts, love LB

Kim Harris said...

Jennie,
Thanks for the loving update. Although you always seem to find the positive things to write about. I know times are hard right now. I am glad the potter/lindsay family have you by their side.
To the boys and Sharyn, know my thoughts are with you and I love you very much. I do not think I will be able to make it on the 20th although I want to be there. It is Passover and my sister came to NY with her new born son (augustcharles@blogspot.com) to celebrate with me and my family and it just would not be right of me to leave them. No matter how much I want to be there with you. I must think of them too. I will be there soon to celebrate Jans Life and life in general.
To Lisa I am so relived that you changed the date of your trip. I was watching the news today and of course I thought of you and hoped you wouldn't go during these difficult times.
My thoughts and love are with you all in the Fleet and even though I am far away I feel as if I am with you all if not in body in spirt.
Love to you all. Peace to you all.
See you soon but not soon enough for me.
Much Love,
Kim Harris

suzibee said...

Jennie you are truly an angel...one with her head on straight and a tenacious spirit.
Caleb is so lucky to have you in his life...Carrying you and the entire Lindsay/Potter crew in my heart and counting the days until we're back in the Fleet. Blessings to the supportive crew who stand with the Lindsay/Potters through the roller coaster ride that is life.
Suzibee

Ingrid said...

I am one of a million people who met Jan by chance in Wellfleet (South Wellfleet to be exact, at the picnic table by the market) and became his friend, even if just for a few minutes. What a completely memorable and charismatic guy. I know it's trite, but he will live on through his boys. I am beyond sad for the Potter family and everyone who loved Jan.

Ingrid said...

I am one of a million people who met Jan by chance in Wellfleet (South Wellfleet to be exact, at the picnic table by the market) and became his friend, even if just for a few minutes. What a completely memorable and charismatic guy. I know it's trite, but he will live on through his boys. I am beyond sad for the Potter family and everyone who loved Jan.

Sarah Anthony said...

Jennie: I am deeply touched by your thoughtfulness in your words here and the gift for Caleb and for us that is your guidance. And, I notice that I don't want to ride right over my own ache. I do not know what it looks like for you (and what if feels like inside your own bones) to remind Caleb tenderly of his loss of his dad when he has forgotten. What I know is present inside me is my own gratitude for your willingness to know this experience and to meet this day. Over here, a host of miles away, I am better because of what you all generously give to Caleb and to each other. I send love, Sarah A.

Shannon Buss said...

Sounds like a great date Jenny! Only positive thoughts here...
xoxoxo
Shannon from RI

Sky said...

jennie,
this post was so well written. beautiful words with insight and a thoughtful perspective. i hope the springtime sunshine is adding light to your smile.
love you,
sky

Anonymous said...

Jenny, I absolutely love your blogs. I adore the love and hope and wonder and maturity you see life, and especially caleb, with.
I get the feeling that having you near is like having an angel of peace and light near.
I continue to pray for you and send love your way..
anna h.