Monday, May 26, 2008

Graduation for Kai was everything I had wanted for him. Arriving the day before, we settled into our cozy B&B run by a gracious elderly couple who actually cooked a "full" breakfast for us the folllowing day. On the day of Graduation, Kai was found on the great steps to Stockbridge Hall, dressed in cap and gown, speaking with Jeff Lewis (all the way from Maine), and David Kennedy who also traveled from the Cape. I want to thank them for making the effort to stand beside us through all of this turmoil in our recent lives, to put aside all of their desires and put us first, and for taking the time - yes- just time, to be along when we needed them the most.

Caleb traveled without a glitch and we arrived back home to prepare for yet another Potter/Lindsay yard party, complete with cold beers in tubs, wine for me and a Pinata to finish up the celebration.

Now a word of thanks to Elizabeth Esher - Kai's long term girlfriend who has also passed through this journey with him, and has given him the love and patience that has helped to carry him through. ( We would post a picture..but all of you single bloggers would be hitting on her)...Liz also graduated with honors.

I have been feverish just thinking about all of the support we have had, all of you who follow along with us, all of your blessed intentions for us, and wondering just what I could possibly say to convey our appreciation. So re-read what I just wrote to Jeff and David, for that very same thank you applies to you as well.


When I wake each morning I ponder how this day will go - will we get through without turmoil, or another accident, or loss? Or will we be graced with cherry blossoms dreaming their way to the ground, the melodious sound of a single chime somewhere off in the distant woods, and safe and ever so gently sleeping boys above me?
Love is the only reason to ever go forward..... and with love for you today- I step out into the day .
mumsie

24 comments:

  1. beautifully written, inspiring....
    congrats again to kai and his girl!
    so glad the trip was a good one for all.
    thinking of you as we get ready for josh to march in the parade with the boy scouts.... i just love the fly-over... gives me chills.
    peace and prayers
    amy in ct

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  2. beautifully written, inspiring....
    congrats again to kai and his girl!
    so glad the trip was a good one for all.
    thinking of you as we get ready for josh to march in the parade with the boy scouts.... i just love the fly-over... gives me chills.
    peace and prayers
    amy in ct

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  3. Congratulations again to Kai and Liz.

    Yesterday as today the sky was brilliant and the sun radiant but these pale in the glow of your words for this occasion.

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  4. A grand time was had by all. I noticed, being removed sufficiently to observe his progress weeks at a time, that the Lebster was especially independent and engaged with the attendants. I expect the next time we have one of these he'll be the life of the party, as has been the way of Fleet for years, and soon will be again for years and years to come.

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  5. Hugs and warm congratulations from us!

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  6. Congratulations again! I am so happy that all went well. Graduations are such high moments---for the graduates and their families. Your family certainly deserved such a high moment.

    All the best to Kai, Liz and the whole family.

    Amy from western MA

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  7. Sharyn,

    Great afternoon at your house for Kai's party!

    Watching a game of horse shoes being played will now have a new meaning for me after seeing yesterday's games...


    ;-))
    Kevin

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  8. My Dear Sharyn....You have hit a chord..Love is ALWAYS the answer. So, remember, on those days when the sun is not so bright, and a storm may be approaching, in the midst of Chaos, no matter what, LOVE is always the answer.

    Con el amor mas grande del mundo, les mando abrazos y besitos a toda la famila....

    Melinda y MariElena

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  9. There is and always will be so much more to love...... k

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  10. Congratulations Kai and family. These happy milestones remind us of all we have to look forward to. I hope to get to the Cape again this summer and perhaps bump into you on the streets. Will it freak you out when a stranger comes up with a hug?? Or does this happen all the time? haha Sending you all continued happy thoughts and thanks.

    South Shore Mom

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  11. Still checking your blog daily. Congratulations to your entire family! It sounds like you are finding your new "normal" life.....Your blog put a huge smile on my face!

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  12. Sounds like a fantastic weekend. Congrats to all

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  13. Kai & Liz CONGRATULATIONS!!!
    I am very proud of you both. I wish I could have been there to celebrate with you.
    Sharyn, Caleb and Max you are also in my thoughts all the time! I can not wait to head up to the Cape to see you all.
    Much Love,
    Kim

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  14. Our love for you has carried us through the journey you are traveling. We feel happy during your good times and cry with pain through your bad times. You are as always an inspiration Sharyn. I only wish I was more like you.

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  15. Sharyn,
    I am awestruck by the strength of you and your family and your love for one another in the face of your losses, not to mention the inspiring support by the communities of the upper Cape. I vacationed on Lt. Island in late August of 2007, and finally had to ask why pirate flags were flying everywhere. I'm a native of Carlisle, MA, and spent many a vacation on the Cape as a boy. I now live in Orange County, CA, and communities here just aren't the same. I am glad to hear that Caleb is home.
    Best Wishes,
    Scott T.
    Irvine, CA

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  17. Congratulations Kai. You have always been able to pull through and put in such great effort. A commendable lad you are :) Do you have any pictures to post Sharyn? Sending my love and positive vibes to you guys. I can't wait to squeeze you all in June!
    XoXo
    Lily

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  18. Your words speak oceans...how far you have come. So glad your graduation celebrations were fun. I'm especially happy that Caleb can enjoy all of this! (Is there a book on the back-burner somewhere? someday? I hope so.)
    love is all there is...

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  19. Very nice Sharyn, thank you too for taking your time on the blog and allowing us all into your fleet. Keep smiling! Xo Grace

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  20. It sounds like the Potter Family is truly on the upswing. Summer is almost here, and I believe I can already see the post and pictures of Caleb walking in the 4th of July parade this year.
    The tears will flow once again in Wellfleet, but they will be happy tears!
    You are all amazing and the strength you have shown over the last year is inspirational.

    J

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  21. Love is a powerful gift that has flowed back and forth from these pages for almost a year now. There is not one of us that has not been warmed by it's soothing grace. So, you're welcome, Sharyn, and thank you to you and the rest of the sweet souls here in our little community that have kept the love in motion.
    It really is what life is all about.
    As always with hope,
    peg from PA

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  22. Kai and Liz,
    Way to go!!
    Congratulations!
    marcia, sam and jeffrey duggan

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